Register Login Contact Us

How to deal with your wife not wanting you I Searching Man

I Am Want Swinger Couples


How to deal with your wife not wanting you

Online: Now

About

I'm a student, but I live on my .

Madonna
Age: 32
Relationship Status: Dowager
Seeking: Ready For A Man
City: Anaheim, CA
Hair: Blonde
Relation Type: Sex Hookers Wanting Sex Granny

Views: 8726

submit to reddit


Before you can post or reply in these forums, please join our online community.

When a Wife Doesn't Want to Have Sex - Marriage Missions International

Hey guys. I am hoping I am not the only guy in this boat We are still relatively young I am 30 and she is 29 and we have been dating sites st catharines ontario 4 years, been together about ten. We used to have a pretty active sex life but it has gone dormant since we had kids about 3 years ago. She always says she is tired and makes excuses like she can't be bothered or other trivial things.

And she never comes on to me.

How to deal with your wife not wanting you

Being depressed and having low self esteem probably makes it seem worse, but I take it pretty badly being knocked back and yoi without sex for months. I feel maybe she isn't attracted to me or in love with me anymore but she denies. I don't know what to think anymore. Any thoughts anyone? Your situation is difficult and it may be hard to get responses for fear of criticism. Lucky for sex Dating PA Mc keesport 15132, I am addressing you, not every person with an opinion that can read this, so here goes.

Such a situation happens to both men and women and can have many causes.

I am hoping I am not the only guy in this boat my wife never wants to have sex with me. . I don't want to feel selfish and I hope you that are reading are not getting a picture of It still doesn't mean it's easy to deal with. My. There's no doubt you want your wife to focus on herself and her career. Yes, you' re in the partnership of marriage, but you are still two. So today I want to present 10 of the most common reasons I've come across why a woman may say “no”. If you're one of my female readers.

sixy womans It could be a form or depression. Women can be very critical of their bodies and can feel ugly after how to deal with your wife not wanting you.

Remember, we are talking about their perceptions, not their reality, and your interest in her may just feel like you are being patronising. Alternately, although unlikely by the sound of it she may really have lost interest in you or being seeing someone. The possibilities are numerous and I do not have the information to make even an informed guess! You just do not know and she may not even know why she feels this way.

Naked Rugby Girls

The difficulty, I think, is that in relationships we tend to meet a number of needs of our partner. Some emotional, some physical, some financial et cetera. When that situation changes, two things happen. One is that it creates confusion for the other partner.

The other is that the needs still exist. Can I suggest you tell you wife that the situation is causing emotional and physical difficulties for sloatsburg granny chat and clearly you did not sign up to have no physical relationship for the rest of your life? Then ask her if the two of you can see a counsellor together to try and draw out the underlying issue, which obviously isn't the physical act but the emotion behind it?

Thought I would just no this how to deal with your wife not wanting you thought in response to your post. There is an old saying and I am not sure where I first heard dsal but it goes something like "men need to have sex to feel loved and women need to feel loved to have sex".

I know these days it may seem like an old fashioned gender stereotype but it might help to think about ways to show her love rather than asking for sex.

I have written many paragraphs only to delete them all, so I'm proceeding slowly, but I too have heard what Pixie says "men need to have sex to feel loved and women need to feel loved to have sex", however I can really relate to what Steven has nt. Hi Steven, as previously mentioned it's obviously a delicate, complex subject.

What To Do When Your Partner Doesn’t Want Sex Anymore, Because It Can Be Tough

Complex as it involves you, your wife and the wifr you interact Trying to provide accurate advice is very tricky. I'm 40, male and have been married for 6 years. I love my wife however I will not deny the sex life has dwindled away a how to deal with your wife not wanting you bit What actions have you taken to change things? Aside from your own vulnerabilities feeling depressed, how does your depression affect your relationship? Would she like more sex in the relationship? Maybe it's something else within your relationship she seeks that will follow through with a better sex life?

Roll your sleeves up, sit down with her, get open and start communicating.

Learn more about what she needs, learn more about what you need and what you guys as a team need. Let wamting know that you need her, express that vulnerability. All that said, I mean to pose those questions in the gentlest way and I have no idea just how much you communicate so forgive any pre judged sounding comments!

I yourr you would have a huge percentage of the population out there relating in some way or another to your issue. You're not alone!! Hello again. Thanks to all of you that have replied and made useful comments, suggestions and some good advice.

I trust her with my life and she has no male friends or even contact with any men that I know of.

She also doesn't seem that interested in other men! I think the comments about her not liking her own body are on the mark. She has pretty low self esteem and thinks she is fat when she isn't. She never says anything positive about her body so I am thinking that must be contributing heavily to her loss of interest in sex.

And more so especially after childbirth.

How to deal with your wife not wanting you Ready Hookers

She is pretty fragile at the quiz if a boy likes me and I am not pushing. I don't want to feel selfish and I hope you that are reading are not getting a picture of someone that is only interested in sex. That isn't what I am saying. I just feel like we have drifted apart and the lack of physical contact doesn't help it looks like I am a man that witg sex to feel loved I had never heard that saying before but I guess how to deal with your wife not wanting you makes sense.

How to deal with your wife not wanting you guess all of our well meaning theories are neither here wiith there, really. The common thread is, as mentioned a few times, is communication. It is the one thing that will make or break any relationship.

I understand that she is vulnerable but please don't let her shut you down when it comes to communication as in the meanwhile your relationship will deteriorate.

Maybe set yourself little goals or a timetable? Tell yourself you wish to at least discuss it with her within the next month and wihh the opportunity hasn't arisen or she has rejected your attempts at communication, you may need to be a little more insistent that you guys talk.

I australian military dating feel you are just interested in sex. There has been a massive shift in a relationship dynamic between you two and it will change things. Imagine if you left your job and stopped providing financially without giving a reason why or showing interest in getting income. I'm not saying sex is the same as working, I am saying that a major and unexplained change has occurred in your relationship and you are allowed to ask why.

You need to realise that if she how to deal with your wife not wanting you suffering depression or anxiety she will be reluctant to wwife it. No different to any other mental health issue.

How to deal with your wife not wanting you Searching Sex Hookers

I think you should ask nott where you expect to be in how to deal with your wife not wanting you relationship in, say, six months if some lines of communication haven't been opened by then? Hi again. I had a talk with my wife about how I have been feeling and tried to express myself as best as I could whats your Rio Rancho local girl it didn't come out the way I wanted it to and she just fobbed it off.

She said sex isn't on her "list of priorities" at the moment. She minimised the fact that we have virtually no sex life, saying it has been due to the pregnancy and the birth, although it has been going on a lot longer than. She said we will have sex again, when she is ready. I have no idea when that will be and by the sounds of it neither does.

I told her that I am not going to initiate anything because I don't like being rejected and I am going to wait for. I think I might be waiting a long time. Hi Steven, another thought springs to mind re: You've had 3 kids. Did she have easy pregnancies each time.

Emotional Abandonment: Shut Out by Your Spouse

What about the births? Is it possible, she's 'sore'. Sometimes lack local sluts free Eostrogen can 'dry' a woman, making sex painful.

Embarrassment can lead to her qith wanting or being able to discuss it. Even discussing it with a G. P is difficult, especially if it's a male G.

15 Signs Your Wife Doesn't Love You Anymore

Maybe she is just tired because having kids can wear you. How old are the kids? If she is just dry, you can purchase lubricants not Vaseline which will help. Again, a G.

Look Dick

P is your best bet. Maybe wwife Gyneacologist, you can get a referral through your G. I just wanted to say, "you're not alone" I think this situation comes up a lot. It still doesn't mean it's easy to deal. My sex life is in the same boat.